RESOURCES
There is Hope
Discovering that your child has a problematic sexual behavior can be overwhelming. It can bring about a flood of emotions, from anger to sadness, denial, shame, and guilt. Having the right help and support is vital to helping your child and assisting you in gaining a sense of hope for the future. You are not alone. Help is available. The National Children’s Alliance provides a guide for parents and caregivers, learn more below.
As a parent, it can be incredibly challenging and overwhelming to navigate these sensitive and often taboo topics, especially when you may not know where to turn for help. The National Center on the Sexual Behavior of Youth (NCSBY) has a team of experts that are dedicated to providing you with the information, resources, and support to help your children move forward towards a healthier and happier future.
Resources & Education
RESOUCES
How to Respond
Children and young people typically display a range of sexualized behaviors as they grow up. However, some may display problematic or abusive sexualized behavior. This is harmful to the children who display it as well as the people it's directed towards.
Use this guide to distinguish sexual behaviors that are developmentally typical, problematic, or harmful.
Understanding common myths and misconceptions about youth with problematic sexual behavior can help you treat and keep all kids safe. Some early assumptions about children with sexual behavior problems continue to exist which have not been supported by current research. Check out The National Center on the Sexual Behavior of Youth’s video which will examine common misconceptions of children with sexual behavior problems.
Myths & Misconceptions
Treatment
Check out the National Children’s Alliance’s guide to effective treatment for youth with problematic sexual behavior. Find a provider through the Advocacy & Training Alliance, which leads the professional treatment community toward a best-practice approach to assessment and intervention.
As a parent or caregiver managing your stress is essential. It is important to remember this is not your fault. What your child has done does not define who they are or make you a ‘bad’ caregiver. Siblings who may not have been directly involved in the problematic sexual behavior can be affected by the events and responses. It is important to make sure all children have the support they need as they grow. The National Center on the Sexual Behavior of Youth provides information and resources for parents and impacted siblings.
